Why does this keep happening?
When we ask for guidance on how to deal with something, or we’ve recognized a part of us that needs healing, Source will often present us with opportunities in which to face our issues.
We can run all we want and not face it, while continuing to ask for assistance in clearing it, and our answer will be yet another circumstance in which we can practice different choices.
Remember, life is a big experiment and our choices govern our consequences.
So when we are presented with the same situation or circumstances, we can always make a different choice from the last time and see what the new consequences are.
We can choose to bring love to a situation to see how that plays out.
We can choose to be more of an observer and work on reacting vs responding to see how that plays out.
We may feel like we’re not being supported in our efforts to live more in flow, but we must recognize the big picture and see how the pieces put before us can be for our highest good.
The opportunity to look at a situation differently, to replay our actions and see where we are executing coping mechanisms… these are opportunities to recognize, without judgment, and decide if we want to choose differently.
Real life example:
The Question
I’ve recognized that I over-compensate with one group of people, so who is that really serving and what is behind me acting in this manner?
The Reflection
Just the fact that awareness was brought to the situation is a huge first step. Now there can be movement forward of feeling into what this has meant for the experience up to this point.
Journal Prompts
Has this behavior helped, or has it been a form of self-sabotage?
What does it make me think about when I look at this behavior from the observer’s perspective?
What do I see as I step out of myself?
What did I see?
What did I like and what did I not like about this unconscious behavior?
What was this supposed to do for me, or help me with?
Is there a better way to address this moving forward?
Do I need to apply less action or more action in order to be in alignment?
What specific action can I take in order to heal what I’ve been asking for guidance on?
I’d love to know if you resonate with this reflection. Leave a comment or send me a message here.
With Infinite Love,
Tifani
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