This post is a new format I’m playing around with for you to get a feel for the practical application of working with Soul Realignment. My hope is that you relate to these characters because their stories are everyday examples of how you can leverage the energetic insights of your Akashic Record to create a fulfilling experience.
Lucy, 38 y/o – Primary 4th Energy Center
Lucy is married with two kids, age 15 and 13. She’s become a master of multi-tasking and keeping everyone on schedule, but there are places where she feels like she’s failing.
She feels like she’s the only one contributing to keeping a tight ship, and it’s begun to manifest in unhealthy ways. Lucy has started to feel like her efforts are not being appreciated and that her feelings are being overlooked. She can’t seem to get her family to understand that everyone’s part is important and they must hold up their end for things to run smoothly.
How did she get here?
This situation was instigated when Lucy got fed up with her family dropping the ball in a string of mishaps right as school started.
She’d done so much planning and organizing for the school year to go off without any issues, but the kids weren’t recognizing her work, and her husband wasn’t sticking up for her when she expressed her grievances in family meetings.
This went on for a couple of weeks as Lucy fought harder and harder to keep things organized and everyone in their place. She spent more time than ever being the example of what she was expecting from her family, even stepping in on the kids’ chores when she noticed they were slacking.
Lucy would make a big deal of rounding up dirty laundry and stating loudly that she’s helping them out so they could get to another chore. Yet no one seemed to be paying attention. Her efforts to help out resulted in less and less doing on her family’s end, and more work for her.
Breaking Point
This pattern of being an example without response continued on for another few weeks until Lucy couldn’t take it anymore. She didn’t realize what was happening at the time, but she essentially stopped being the primary planner and organizer for the family.
Chores began slacking as she was not overcompensating for her kids like before, so nothing was getting done. Her husband was the first to notice the change, and when he asked Lucy what was going on, she would give a dismissing nonchalant mumble and walk away.
The kids were less observant as they were completely absorbed in their own teenage worlds. Their dad tried to get the household back on track by getting on the kids for not completing their chores and he encouraged them to take their responsibilities seriously.
It didn’t matter, Lucy had already reached the dysfunctional aspect of a primary 4th energy center.
Her inherent desire to nurture and be nurtured reciprocally wasn’t being met within running her household, resulting in helplessness. Lucy displayed a classic archetypal behavior by attempting to be the example of what she needed, with no change in her family’s actions.
The Next Step
When we’re in the thick of things, it can be difficult to step outside of ourselves in observer mode to get an objective view of what’s actually happening. People often say, I don’t know what’s going on, but everything just feels off, this isn’t working like it used to.
In Lucy’s case, her Energetic Matrix reading would reflect a misalignment at her 4th energy center, most likely in BOTH mental (4D) and physical action (3D) aspects.
At this point I would invite her to explore exactly where she’s not feeling supported and let her see for herself where she’s been overcompensating in an effort to be the example without the other party recognizing this or changing their behavior.
There are a few ways to tackle this, but the next step must be Lucy’s idea as she exercises her inner authority.
Here’s what I would offer in consideration:
- Is this a situation that needs to be addressed OR does something need to be eliminated?
- Being that I don’t have control over another being, what is MY part in this situation?
- Are my adjustments rooted in mindset and/or physical action?
- What mindset shift will affect this situation? What are my reframes?
- What small actions can I take to begin shifting this situation?
AFFIRMATIONS for these moments of transition and integration:
– I honor my SELF in all that I do. I GET to choose today.
– What can I do to find JOY in this moment, until all of my moments feel joyful?
Takeaway
Lucy’s biggest realization was about working with her energy centers in general, that it applies to everything including how she runs her household. She could admit that she was originally under the impression that her energy insights could only be applied to her work and how she brings in money.
There are layers and layers to explore in this journey, and applying the nurture/be nurtured, support/be supported design of the 4th energy center illustrates how transformation is possible in all areas of life.
Each energy center is designed to create abundance in different ways, and a shift in one life area creates ripples in other areas. Abundance in one leads to space for abundance in all!
I hope this story and takeaway gives you a glimpse into how energy centers are used within Soul Realignment, and it’s just one blueprint characteristic that we can leverage.
So I’d love to hear how this landed for you!
With Infinite Love,
Tifani
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